According to your faith so shall it be ~ Jesus
I am especially focused on empowering women – there is something so potent in the alchemy of healthy masculine energy guiding the receptive feminine to use the beauty of tenderness to navigate their soul essence and transmute the wounds of the shadow.
Generally speaking I feel the clarifying of the terms Sacred Masculine and Divine Feminine is essential to personal empowerment, deep healing and genuine freedom. Both femininity and masculinity are not the exclusive preserve of either sex and both qualities exist within us all.
As the revolution of consciousness has been gathering momentum there is a need for a re-aligning of the trajectory both sexes are on in terms of how they express these 2 inherent qualities. Generally speaking just as many men in the awakening community have become “too feminine” many women have become “too masculine”. Unfortunately both sexes have based their mime on dysfunctional models.
Divine Femininity is a quality of tender receptivity towards a masculine inseminating spiritual presence. The reason why Jesus referred to God in the masculine was not because he has a beard and testicles but because Spirit penetrates that which is yielding (feminine) to it. In that sense ALL form is feminine and is infused by spirit. Divine Femininity is the remembering of this and the constant awareness supporting a receptive, open, tender, yielding, soft, welcoming attitude of receptivity. Exquisite sensitivity is the only qualification required to navigate with the beauty of tenderness as one surrenders deeper and deeper to the inspiration which permeates every fractal of our soul essence – when we the Divine Feminine is fully activated.
The Sacred Masculine has a passive and dynamic aspect. The passive is in the burning essence of ones faith or deep core inner certainty/knowingness of “who I am”. The ancient Sanskrit word for this burning intuitive conviction is Nizchay. I am That I am is the original core code infused into every strand of DNA and the authentic wiring in our gene code and design. All other frequencies and combinations will re-organize into the original structure if your inner being is burning with the certainty of who you truly are.
Jesus said “According to your faith so shall it be”. Just as the tiny seed of a gigantic tree “knows” what it is – so within our soul seed there exists a seed of knowing which transcends all illusion and misconception. It is this knowingness – Nizchay – which is the unshakeable backbone of the Divine Masculine. The certainty which never wobbles. When I hold a woman in my arms I hold them with that certainty – an eternal sense of self rooted in the Truth inherent within the soul.
The dynamic aspect of the Sacred Masculine is simply Love in Action ~ the intuitive expression of inspired spiritualized form expressing love. True love, inspired love flowing from the pure connection consciously experienced ONLY by the alchemy of becoming truly feminine with the masculine backbone of nizchay.
Love ~ Khalil Gibrain
When love beckons to you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams
as the north wind lays waste the garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.
Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself.
He threshes you to make you naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God’s sacred feast.
All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life’s heart.
But if in your fear you would seek only love’s peace and love’s pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love’s threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.
Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.
When you love you should not say, “God is in my heart,” but rather, “I am in the heart of God.”
And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love’s ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.
Healing The Sacral – Bringing Divinity into The 2nd Chakra
The Pure Tantric Path
There is a tremendous amount of human energy focused on the sacral center. The epicenter of survival, sexuality, food, money, power ~ the health of this center has tremendous significance in not only our experience of life currently but also what we attract and how our very destiny unfolds. The main reason for this is the sensual survival center is absolutely feeding into our emotions. If we have sub conscious or unconscious repressed, suppressed, unresolved toxicity in the emotional body then this center will be out of balance and we will be experiencing survival fears and insatiable appetites for substance (food), sex and sensuality. There is a dark side to this center, being as it is the gateway to the astral plane via the astral (emotional body) and that is that the parasitic entities that inhabit the lower astral realms have access to this world through this center.
Modern Tantra has done a great deal towards distorting this human connection with the lower astral realm. The unique alchemy of unresolved sexual trauma, promiscuity, drugs and/or entheogens unceremoniously consumed, emotional catharsis/hysteria and the willing invocation and invitation of disincarnate entities via “channeling” etc into this world has done much to generate chaos in the emotional body and the sacral center.
Red and Black Tantra with their emphasis on sex and “me” – I am doing this to get – power, money, pleasure etc are all forms of sex magic and have nothing to do with the genuine Tantric path and are very often subtle and not so subtle ways of feeding lower astral entities hooked into the sacral center. This is not a theory. I have witnessed this phenomena on multiple occasions and am constantly supporting the transmutation of these energy dynamics in my clients. One cannot help but recognize in the vast majority of tantric teachers and enthusiasts that there are major unresolved 2nd Chakra issues and that something in the lower astral is being fed. The obvious symptoms of this is a subtle but definite sticky dark shadow which accompanies the individual and/or addiction to appetite and sexual or sensual over indulgence.
Red and Black Tantra attempt to raise sexual energy into the higher centers for specific purposes and intentions. A purer approach to Tantra is to focus on the shifting of the sense of self away from the ego centers and into ones Divinity. As one relates to oneself, life and another from this Divine sense of self the sacral dominance is disengaged and any and all connectivity with lowers astral entities is energetically removed.
As one establishes an experience of oneself in an eternal sense of self and the timelessness and patience which this yields, a sense of timelessness pervades and this provides an altogether different higher more pure experience of what it means to be human. All healing can occur within this space. Einstein said we cannot solve a problem on the same level of consciousness that created it. In other words we cannot heal the sacral by living in the sacral. The higher centers have to be activated and the actual center of identity the very core experience of who I am needs must shift away from the ego survival lower astral center into heart and higher consciousness. The resulting expansive seamless peace filled experience of oneself is actually desireless and we can experience the pure joy of freedom and peace and liberate the eternally youthful innocent child within and approach our relationships with the refreshing fragrance of innocence and light -heartedness.
Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding.
Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.
And could you keep your heart in wonder at the daily miracles of your life, your pain would not seem less wondrous than your joy;
And you would accept the seasons of your heart, even as you have always accepted the seasons that pass over your fields.
And you would watch with serenity through the winters of your grief.
Much of your pain is self-chosen.
It is the bitter potion by which the physician within you heals your sick self.
Therefore trust the physician, and drink his remedy in silence and tranquillity:
For his hand, though heavy and hard, is guided by the tender hand of the Unseen,
And the cup he brings, though it burn your lips, has been fashioned of the clay which the Potter has moistened with His own sacred tears.